You have raised concerns about your child. You have asked the school about getting an EHCP. And the school has told you that your child does not need one, does not qualify, or is not "bad enough" to warrant the process. This is one of the most common and most confusing situations parents face, because it sounds authoritative but it is often wrong.
The single most important thing to understand is this: the school does not make the final decision about whether your child gets an EHCP. That decision belongs to the local authority. And as a parent, you have the legal right to apply directly, regardless of what the school says.
Who Actually Decides?
Under the Children and Families Act 2014, the local authority is responsible for deciding whether to carry out an EHC needs assessment. Section 36 of the Act gives any parent the right to request this assessment. You do not need the school to agree. You do not need the school to submit the request on your behalf. You can write directly to your local authority's SEN team and ask them to assess your child.
The school will be asked for their views as part of the process, and their input is taken into account. But their opinion is not the deciding factor. The local authority must consider all the evidence, including evidence from you as a parent, and must apply the legal test set out in the Act. If your child may have special educational needs and may require provision beyond what the school can normally provide, the assessment should go ahead.
Many parents do not realise this, and that lack of awareness is what keeps children from getting the support they need. When the school says no, many families simply accept it. But the school's view is just one input into a decision that the local authority makes.
Why Schools Say No
Schools say no for a range of reasons, and it is worth understanding what drives these responses. In some cases, the school genuinely believes that the child's needs can be met through existing SEN Support. They may feel that the interventions they are providing are sufficient, or that the child is making some progress even if it is slow.
But there are other reasons too. Schools operate under significant resource pressure. The EHCP process requires staff time to complete paperwork, attend meetings, and provide evidence. Some schools are concerned that requesting too many EHCPs will affect their relationship with the local authority or raise questions about their own SEN provision. Others have been told informally by the local authority that certain types of needs will not meet the threshold, and they pass that message on to parents without questioning whether it is accurate.
There is also a common misunderstanding about thresholds. Many SENCOs and teachers believe that EHCPs are only for children with the most significant and complex needs. The law does not say this. The legal threshold is much lower than many schools assume, and it is based on whether the child may need provision beyond what the school can normally offer, not on whether they meet some arbitrary severity benchmark.
What Schools Cannot Do
It is important to be clear about what schools cannot legally do when it comes to EHCPs. The school cannot prevent you from applying. Your right to request an EHC needs assessment is written into primary legislation, and no school policy or decision can override it. If you want to apply, you can.
The school cannot refuse to provide evidence if the local authority requests it. Once you submit your request and the local authority begins considering it, the school is required to cooperate. They must provide information about your child's needs, the support they have put in place, and the progress your child has made.
The school also cannot override your legal right to challenge a refusal. If the local authority refuses your request, you have the right to mediation and the right to appeal to the SEND Tribunal. The school's opinion about whether your child qualifies does not affect these rights in any way.
What You Can Do
If the school has told you that your child does not need an EHCP, you can still apply directly to your local authority. The process starts with a written request, usually a letter or email sent to the SEN team at your local council. In your request, you should describe your child's needs clearly and specifically, explain the impact those needs are having on their education, outline what support has already been tried and why it has not been enough, and include any evidence you have.
You do not need professional reports to submit a request, though they can strengthen your case. Your own observations as a parent are valid evidence. If you can describe specific examples of how your child struggles, what happens at school, and how their difficulties affect their learning and wellbeing, that is powerful information.
If you have any documentation, such as school reports, SEN Support plans, letters from professionals, or communication with the school about your concerns, include copies with your request. The more evidence you provide, the harder it is for the local authority to refuse without properly considering your child's situation.
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Generate your EHCP request letterWhen Schools Are Wrong
Schools are not SEND legal experts. SENCOs receive training in SEN provision, but they are not specialists in the legal framework that governs EHCPs. Their understanding of the threshold for assessment may be based on guidance from the local authority, which is often more restrictive than the law allows, or on their own experience, which may be limited to a small number of cases.
There is also the issue of masking. Many children, particularly those with autism, anxiety, or other internalising conditions, mask their difficulties at school. They hold themselves together throughout the day, suppress their distress, and appear to cope on the surface. The school sees a child who is managing. The parent sees a child who falls apart the moment they get home. Both views are valid, but only one of them reflects the true extent of the child's needs.
When the school tells you that your child is "fine" or "coping," ask yourself whether that matches what you see at home. If your child is exhausted, anxious, distressed, or refusing to go to school, those are not signs of coping. They are signs that the support currently in place is not working.
How EHCP Expert Helps
EHCP Expert is designed for exactly this situation. It helps you apply for an EHCP independently of the school, without needing their agreement or support. The tool guides you through describing your child's needs, structuring your request, and presenting your evidence in the format that local authorities expect to see.
It generates a tailored request letter that cites the correct legislation, describes your child's difficulties with the right level of specificity, and frames your case in legal terms. Whether the school is supportive or not, EHCP Expert ensures that your application is as strong as it can be.
You do not need the school's permission to start this process. You do not need anyone's permission. The law gives you the right to request an assessment for your child, and that right belongs to you.
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